The Meaning Of Maturity
As a college student, when we will go into the big society, we should make us get more mature. Or I think we are difficult to adapt to the social life. Being a mature student does not mean being an old-timer. Maturity is not measured by the number of years a person has lived. Instead, they yardstick of maturity is marked by the qualities of self-denial, determination, and dependability.
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Self-denial is an important quality of a mature student. The word “Self-denial” means restraining being strict with oneself. Sometimes, people define it as self-discipline which has a bias passive meaning. Self-denial is not making a lot of rules and regulations to layer upon layer to manacle oneself, but with the autonomic action to create an order for our study life. We always have great dreams, have magnificent ideals and have grand prospects; however, they are often postponed or even vanished by ourselves due to the lack of self-denial. We should put our ideas into practice. Besides, self-denial also means denying yourself and controlling your impulses. Nobody is perfect. Faced with mistakes, we should take measures to modify it and never behave impulsively.
Determination is another characteristic of a mature student .What we define determination is to take up your mind to act decidedly and take the consequences. Determination not only means decision but also practice. In China, there is a famous fable “the foolish old man removed the mountains”, which presents spirits of firm determination and perseverance. No good is ever done by hesitation in the world. It is known that Buffet, every time his investment will get a huge return, because he is well prepared in advance and determined what makes his pay shall be multiplied.
Although self-denial and determination are both vital, probably the most important measure of maturity is dependability. When we talk about a person who is dependable means he is worthy of reliance or trusts .If you are committed to transmit some secret documents to a company, you must be required dependable. Sometimes dependability refers to responsibility. Judging a person whether he is mature or not, responsibility is the key factor, because only the person with responsibility is worthy of being depended on.
In addition, maturity is also shown in other respects: emotional control ability, the height of the thought, and comprehensive thinking.
In conclusion, if a student who owns the qualities of self-denial, determination and dependability, he can say that he is a mature student with pride; otherwise he can’t. If you really can develop the three qualities, you really comprehend the meaning of maturity. The road to the maturity is like the road to the peak. We did something wrong and, soon, were punished. We faced difficulties and conquered them. We succeeded in stepping on the top and enjoyed it.





problem,戚继光(Qi JiGuang)ordered soldiers to bake the bread and with hemp rope strung together hung on the neck as dry food. This clever idea helped them to win in the end. Later, the bread into the private, not only the common edible, but also become necessary offering ancestor worship the gods. It was named “光饼”(Guang bing)to commemorate 戚继光(Qi JiGuang).





About exercise, there are aerobic exercise and anaerobic exercise. Aerobic exercise can make you become thinner while anaerobic exercise can strengthen your muscles. My suggestion is that you can do anaerobic exercise first and do aerobic exercise later. It will have better effect. And many people choose the way of jogging to keep fit. And there are some issue you have to pay attention to. First, only jogging for more than 40 minutes can make you become thinner. Why? Because if you just jog for 30 minutes, your fat will not burn and the effect will not be obvious. Second, you should do burpees、deep knee bend、plank holder、sit-up and so on, only jogging is not enough if you want a perfect shape. And according to my own experience, yoga is a very good sport to nurse one’s health. And you can do yoga for relax after intense exercises.
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